Does anyone care about me?

Does anyone care about me?
I don't really know if im normal. It seems as though no one cares about me. I guess my family does but not my friends. I have noticed that all of my friends have way more friends than me even though I try to make friends. I also am a very giving person and it seems as though nobody cares at all. I am giving for their sake, to brighten someone's day, not necessarily mine. When I look at my friend's facebook accounts, I see things like "how are you!! I miss you so much, love ya!" or "we miss you" or "I love you, happy birthday!" no body responds to any of my posts and everyone ignores my texts. i am really nice and im aware of my impact on others, I try to be polite and try not to annoy people (which i usually dont) I constantly wonder if they care about me at all and always think about asking them what they'd say or feel if i wasn't around (not dead). Is this normal? Im such a loving, giving, cheerful,and kind person but it seems like no one in this world cares or loves me back. so whats going on?
3 years ago



Best Answer - Chosen by Asker


Love yourself, period. Don't do anything for anyone else expecting something in return. Especially, if you are looking for someone to notice that you're nice. Only do things that make you feel good. Only do things that you REALLY want to do. Oh, & stop measuring your quality to be a good friend on how many friends everyone else has. Most people only have one or two TRUE friends their entire lives. Learn to love yourself!